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Divorce mediation: Should you give it a try?

When a New Jersey spouse decides to file for divorce, he or she typically has several options available. If there are children involved, that adds a whole other dynamic to the situation as well. For those who want to settle things as painlessly and swiftly as possible, divorce mediation may be the way to go. 

This process is definitely not for everyone, however. If spouses are no longer able to get along well enough to have a civil discussion, then mediation is not likely a viable option for them. This form of alternative dispute resolution works best when both spouses are willing to meet on peaceful terms and discuss all divorce-related issues with the goal of achieving a fair settlement. Where children are concerned, parents promise to keep their best interests a central focus of mediation negotiations.  

Whereas litigated divorces sometimes turn into long, drawn-out courtroom battles, mediation is meant to be a short-term process. A neutral third party serving as a mediator helps those involved to meet this goal by facilitating focused discussions. A mediator also helps spouses find common ground on issues involving parenting, finances and property division.  

Mediation contracts may be orally finalized or settled in writing; either way is usually legally enforceable, particularly since courts are understandably in favor of parties solving their divorce issues on their own. Any New Jersey resident who wishes to know more about the process can tap into local resources for information. Someone experienced in mediation as it pertains to laws governing divorce can help determine whether a particular situation may benefit from this form of negotiation in divorce.  

Source: FindLaw, "What is Mediation?", Accessed on May 6, 2018

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