Child custody cases are nearly always emotionally charged, especially when coupled with the stress of going through a divorce. In New Jersey, some parents opt to address custody issues through mediation instead of court.
Mediation can be an advantageous option when parents are willing to resolve child custody issues collaboratively. Here are several reasons to consider mediation as an alternative to traditional courtroom proceedings.
1 – Sets a cooperative environment
Mediation fosters communication and problem-solving, focusing on the child’s best interests. Unlike court, where it can feel like a parent-on-parent battle, mediation encourages both parents to work together. A neutral mediator guides discussions and keeps them on track.
2 – Typically faster than litigation
Court cases can drag on for months, but successful child custody mediation usually concludes much faster. When parents are willing to communicate and cooperate, the resolution process often speeds up, reducing stress for both the parents and the child.
3 – Fewer costs than court proceedings
In child custody mediation, one mediator works with both parents, eliminating the need for each parent to hire their own attorney. Even when the mediator is a legal practitioner, the overall process is usually less expensive than a courtroom divorce.
The process of mediation
Custody mediation begins with both parents meeting a neutral mediator who explains the process and sets ground rules. Sessions are scheduled where the mediator facilitates discussions on custody issues. Each parent presents their views, and the mediator helps them negotiate terms.
Once you reach an agreement, it is documented and submitted to the court for approval. Family law representatives certified as mediators can lend a unique aspect to custody negotiations. They can also help you understand the legal consequences, if any, of your final custody decisions.