Courts understand the need for children to maintain meaningful connections with both parents, even when those parents are divorced. They often favor 50/50 custody (joint and/or physical) arrangements, where parents share responsibility and physical time roughly equally.
While this evolution is a positive one for families and children, it may not suit every situation. It’s important to consider the possible downsides, which may be temporary or long-term, and pursue the child custody arrangements that best meets your child’s needs.
Constant transitions
Frequent transitions between homes can be stressful for some children, leading to feelings of instability and insecurity. The constant disruption in routine could pose difficulties for very young or emotionally dependent kids.
Logistical challenges
Managing a consistent 50/50 schedule can be more challenging than you expect, requiring coordination and communication between parents. The involved logistics can create additional stress for parents and children.
Potential for conflict
Equal custody can lead to disagreements between parents, especially when making decisions about upbringing. Differing parenting styles and opinions poses the risk of ongoing disputes that could impact the child.
Difficulty in decision-making
Making joint decisions about the child’s upbringing can be challenging in a 50/50 custody arrangement. Parents may struggle to agree on issues like education, healthcare and religion, leading to delays and frustration.
Weigh the potential pros and cons
The possible benefits of 50/50 custody cannot be ignored. They include:
- Balanced child relationship with both parents
- Reduced feelings of loss for children
- Better cooperation and communication between parents
- More stability and consistency for all
The takeaway is to prioritize custody and visitation arrangements that work for your unique situation and child. Someone experienced in New Jersey law can help you seek the plan that best serves your child’s interests.