The decision to place a baby for adoption is one that typically comes after considerable thought by the birth parents. One of the decisions they have to make is what type of adoption they want. While the majority of adoptions in the past were closed, many are open in present times.
Both types of adoption serve the same purpose, but there are some specific differences that birth and adoptive families should consider as they’re trying to decide what’s best for their needs.
What is an open adoption?
Birth and adoptive families typically maintain some level of communication after the baby is born, but this is tailored to the situation and can change as needed. Some open adoptions include regular visits between the child and the birth parents. Others focus more on periodic updates via email or text. In order for these adoptions to be successful, there must be clear boundaries and agreements that both parties abide by.
What is a closed adoption?
In a closed adoption, there is no direct contact between birth parents and adoptive families. Identifying information is typically sealed, and the child may not have access to details about their birth family until they reach adulthood. Information may be difficult to find even once they become adults. Closed adoptions can provide a sense of closure for birth parents and security for adoptive families.
Determining which type of adoption best suits a specific situation requires the birth parents and adoptive parents to think about what they’re comfortable with. In both cases, there should be clear guidelines and expectations set. This may be easier if both parties have someone on their side who can explain the options and ensure their rights and wishes are respected throughout the process.