Social media has become a routine part of daily life, but during a divorce, it can carry serious risks. Courts increasingly use online content to assess credibility, behavior and financial claims. What may seem like an innocent post could end up as damaging evidence in court.
Understanding how online activity is viewed during legal proceedings can help limit potential setbacks during divorce.
Posts can be used as evidence
Anything shared on Facebook, Instagram, X or TikTok may be used in court. A photo of a new purchase might be seen as proof of hidden assets. A party photo could raise questions about parental judgment. Even private messages may be obtained through legal channels. Once something is posted, it can be difficult to fully delete it.
Online activity can affect custody and support
Family courts focus on the best interests of the child. If one parent’s online behavior suggests irresponsibility, it could influence custody decisions. Negative comments about a co-parent may also be seen as an unwillingness to support the child’s relationship with both parents. Social media posts that show lavish spending might even affect alimony or child support calculations.
Limiting the risk
During a divorce, it’s wise to limit social media use. Avoid posting about finances, parenting or your ex. Turn on privacy settings, but don’t rely on them completely. Friends can still share or screenshot your posts. It’s also a good idea to avoid engaging with negative comments or messages.
Think carefully before liking, commenting or sharing anything online. Even seemingly harmless activities can be taken out of context. The less you share, the lower the risk.
Divorce is a sensitive process. Being cautious online can help prevent unnecessary complications. Seeking legal guidance is also a crucial step.